As a gay man and a life coach, I am passionate about helping gay men

live the life of their dreams and make their younger self proud.

Gay men face unique challenges in this world. They often feel pressure to show up in the world in a certain way. Therefore, who we become may not even be a conscious choice. This can make finding our identity challenging because we may have hid ourselves away many years ago for self preservation and survival. The process of uncovering our true selves is one that, sadly too many men don’t do.

There are different extremes we may take to create an identity. For some it’s adopting what they think fits the mold of the gay scene which may include a lot of vapid conversations, partying in excess, adopting a persona that is comedic yet brutal to cover our pain, many also develop an over-identification with looks, trying to have the “perfect” body and never age. Then there are others who try to blend in and not make any waves in the world. These men will dim their light, avoid talking about their personal lives, and try never to appear “gay” even though they are. There are many ways to show up as a gay or bi man. These are extreme examples but even nuanced ones can be problematic as they are not authentic.

Whenever we hide our light, we cast shadows. Owning our power is how we create lives we love. This is done one choice at a time. This is your chance to make a change.

Through life coaching, gay men can explore their identity as well as uncover their greatest dreams, build healthy relationships, and develop specific action plans to make progress in achieving their goals. Having conversations where gay men are free to honestly express themselves and their needs is the first step towards creating positive change in their lives. We must own our truth and then gain authentic empowerment so we can choose the best path forward.

Working together with an excellent coach makes the journey of life easier and more fulfilling.

Don’t just take my word for it, see what past clients have said about working together-

“Kaden coached me in a progressive / new age approach. He tackles challenges with you in a unique way that leads to more profound breakthroughs and powerful realizations so that you see yourself in a new light.”

“I felt completely safe and comfortable with Kaden fast. It was because of coaching that I was able to work through a difficult past and was able to finally leave it in the past.”

“He (Kaden) helped me release my worries about fitting in and the shame I had around my body. I feel free now.”

“Who wants to go to a generic coach who doesn’t understand what it’s like to live your struggles? Kaden gets it, he has had a long journey to finding peace and to become who he is. He can help you on your road too.”

“Kaden James cares for all of his clients, I know because I was coached by him. Then I told some friends and two of them were coached by him as well. If you want a coach who will really go on the journey with you cheering you on and giving you real accountability that helps you get where you want to be then Kaden is the guy.”

“I had trouble even looking at myself in the mirror without feeling I missed out on my youth after years of being hidden about my identity as a gay man. Kaden helped me see that my life isn’t over and that everything I went through led me to this moment, I know feel a sense of peace about it all.”

“You don’t have to go it alone anymore. You can be supported in your moves by a coach who practices what he preaches.”

I am thankful for all of my coaches, teachers and clientsd, each has made me better and helped me grow. I hope I can do the same with and for you. To this day, the best decision I ever made was to get coached and become a life coach.

I believe in you and where you are heading.